Going through a divorce is emotionally and legally challenging. Whether you’re just considering it or already in the process, these practical tips can help you protect your interests and make informed decisions.
1. Get Organized Early
✔ Gather financial documents (bank statements, tax returns, property deeds)
✔ Make copies of important records (marriage certificate, prenups)
✔ Create a list of shared assets and debts
2. Understand Your Options
- Mediation (Cheaper, faster, if both parties cooperate)
- Collaborative Divorce (Team approach with lawyers and financial advisors)
- Litigation (Necessary for high-conflict cases)
3. Protect Yourself Financially
🔹 Open a personal bank account
🔹 Monitor joint credit cards
🔹 Consider freezing shared assets if trust is an issue
4. Prioritize Children’s Needs
- Avoid arguing in front of kids
- Work toward a parenting plan focusing on stability
- Remember: Child support ≠ visitation rights
5. Choose the Right Professionals
- Hire a divorce attorney (even for amicable splits)
- Consult a financial advisor for long-term planning
- Consider a therapist for emotional support
6. Avoid Common Mistakes
❌ Hiding assets (illegal and damages credibility)
❌ Using social media to vent (posts can be used in court)
❌ Making verbal agreements without legal review
7. Take Care of Yourself
- Maintain routines and healthy habits
- Lean on trusted friends/family
- Remember: Divorce is a process, not a permanent state
